How I Can Help You
Avoid Making Mistakes With Long Term Impact
Divorce is a process that can overwhelm your life. Decisions made during this period can result in serious mistakes that could have long-term consequences for everyone involved. I help clients make decisions consistent with who they are when they are at their best, that are connected to their values, and which support a vision for their future.
Save Time & Money
A divorce coach can help you engage with other divorce professionals more efficiently. An attorney is an important professional to have on your divorce team, but expecting your lawyer to play the role of counselor, therapist and thinking partner for all concerns outside your legal rights and responsibilities is not an expectation all lawyers will want or be willing to fulfill. While some attorneys may enjoy or tolerate the expectation of "full-service" support, legal fees can quickly skyrocket if you call your lawyer every time you find yourself in the slightest predicament or in need of emotional support. A coach can help you manage your emotions, get focused, organized and become more knowledgeable about the divorce process. My mission as your coach is to ensure that you show up for each meeting with your attorney prepared to be an efficient and effective client - saving you both time and money.
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Get Connected With The Right Professionals
Many think of divorce as a singular legal event, but it is a complex process that affects just about every aspect of your life and can quickly leave you feeling as though your entire world has been flipped upside down. While there may be similarities between divorces, each situation is unique in it's own way and should be managed as such. ​Luckily, there are many different types of divorce professionals available who can help you navigate each part of the divorce process. I can help you understand the options available to you so that you can make an informed and strategic plan for the road ahead. As your coach, I can connect you with lawyers, real estate agents, mortgage brokers, certified divorce financial analysts, mediators, even matchmakers! Whatever your situation, or however far along in the process you are, we will work together to ensure your divorce team suits your individual needs, goals and budget.
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Co-Parenting Support
Divorce can be a traumatic experience for both children and their parents. While divorce always affects children, the greatest damage is caused when their parents do not get along sufficiently well to provide safe, stable living environments. I help parents move past their resentment, overcome their fears, communicate effectively and establish boundaries so that they can work towards a healthy co-parenting relationship, focus on the best interests of their children and protect them from getting caught in the middle of conflict.
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Work With Me
Choose the level of support that meets your needs
- Best Value
Transition&Recovery
1,198$Personalized support for the entire divorce process & beyondValid for 6 months- Six 1hour coaching sessions
- Access to Parenting from Two Homes Online Course
- Understand your options for the process
- Get organized & set clear goals
- Customize your divorce team + make informed decisions
- Learn how to talk to your kids about divorce
- Guidance for transitioning from a couple to co-parents
- Get organized for developing your parenting plan
- Overcome differences in parenting styles
- Learn how to establish, understand+assert healthy boundaries
- Communicate more effectively to manage and reduce conflict
- Work through and let go of resentment and fear
- Navigate the introduction of new partners
- *Between session text support available
- *Offered in Canada and US
- *Payment plan available by request
Hourly Coaching
175$Single 60 Minute SessionÂ- Guidance without a longer term coaching relationship
- *Offered in Canada and US
Total Divorce Care
5,500$Your Efficient, Streamlined & Affordable Divorce SolutionÂ- 6 Hours of Mediation w/Mediator Jennifer Sanders M.A, AccFm
- Create an agreement for your separation and parenting plan
- Determine the division of property & assets
- Determine support for spouses and children
- 6 Hours of Divorce Transition & Recovery Coaching
- Get organized & emotionally prepared for negotiations
- 1 on 1 coaching to manage & reduce conflict
- Between session text & email coaching support
- *Available to Ontario residents only
- *Payment plan available by request
A complimentary 30 minute online consultation is required before a coaching package can be selected.
Please request a time for your consultation by clicking the button below.
Total Divorce Care
Frequently Asked Questions
Who can use mediation?
Most people can use mediation. Couples in high conflict or on-going disputes can do well in mediation and in fact will have the most to benefit by coming to a resolution. Even if you have already entered the legal system you can often still choose to use mediation instead of, or along with the legal process.
We don't get along. Can we still mediate?
Yes. We are trained to work with even the most high-conflict couples. Conflict doesn't scare us. Mediation is the best way to resolve your conflict so that you can move forward.
How long does it take?
The length of time to come to an agreement will of course depend on how simplified or complicated your personal situation is. In most situations we will meet every few weeks until your agreement is complete. Most couples can reach an agreement within 2-4 months. Usually the timing depends on your own schedules, willingness to meet, and preparedness to discuss the necessary issues.